My WORST Break Up Story (Animated)

My WORST Break Up Story (Animated)

– [Narrator] Tragedy is
something that we all experience in life. And we can’t control this. The only thing we can control, is how we respond to the tragedy. I’m going to share with
you two different stories. One, about a man named Ben, and another, about a man named Jeff. Let’s look at our friend Ben. Ben is a 28-year-old, happy man. He works a comfortable nine to five job, he has a dog, he has a house. He has friends and
family that all love him, and he has a lovely
girlfriend who he is planning on proposing to, in the upcoming years. From the outside looking in, everything is going right in his life. The best way that I would
describe Ben’s life, is the white picket fence life. Ben and his girlfriend have been dating since they were 18 years old. And he is truly in love with her. From a very early age, they would talk about
their futures together. They would talk about what kind
of wedding they would want. They would talk about the type
of house they would live in. They would talk about how
many kids they would want. And, when Ben heard this, he
wanted to provide for her. Ben wanted to give her
everything that she wanted out of life. And he was willing to do the
work in order to do this. So one week, Ben had
to leave town for work. So, he cleaned the house,
took his dog for a walk, kissed his girlfriend goodbye,
and he was on his way. Halfway through his out-of-town
work week, he learned that he could actually come
home early, if he wanted to. So Ben decided to do something
nice for his girlfriend. He decided to surprise her
with flowers and chocolate. In an attempt to be more spontaneous. Which is a quality that his
girlfriend really, really likes. And it’s something that his girlfriend would wish that he did more of. So Ben drives home, and he
is walking up to the door, with flowers and chocolate in hand, excited to surprise her. He opens the door, and the
first thing that he noticed, were someone else’s
shoes, were on the floor. He did not really think much of it. He figured that she had some friends over. She was, after all, a very
social, a friendly person. And because he was gone,
she might have been bored. He walked around the
downstairs of the house, looking for them. But, he didn’t see anything. But he did see that there
was an open bottle of wine sitting on the kitchen counter. He went upstairs to look more,
but still, there was nothing. At this point, he was
getting a little confused. Was she even home? There was only one room
that he had not checked. And that was, the bedroom. So Ben goes up to the
door, and he opens it, still having flowers in hand. And what he saw, would haunt
him for the rest of his life. He saw the girl, that he had
been dating for 10 years, the girl, who he had said
that he was gonna marry, the girl, that he had
planned his future with. He saw this girl in bed with another man. The moment that Ben saw
this, his heart sank. And he felt his stomach turn in knots. His head began pounding. He felt physically sick. In that moment, the only words
that Ben could really muster, was, you need to leave. The next day, she packed
up all of her bags, and just like that, she was gone. The next few months would be prove to be the worst months of his life. Because he was so heartbroken, he started to perform worse at work. He stopped exercising. He stopped staying in contact
with his friends and family. He would spend his nights
in front of the TV, cursing his girlfriend’s name. He would ask himself, “How
could she do this to me? “I wanted to give her everything, “I told her that I would give her “everything that she wanted. “But yet she still does this to me. “This woman ruined my life.” This behavior continued over time. And it got so bad, that
Ben almost lost his job. And because he could not afford this, he did pull himself together a little bit, and he did just enough
not to lose his job. But his mind and body were
still only half there. He was never fully engaged in
anything that he was doing. He spends the next few years
doing a good enough job not to get fired. But, he was still miserable and depressed. And he kept blaming his girlfriend for the way his life was. I think at this point in the story, a lot of you are probably
thinking to yourself, yeah, that is terrible, but, this does not happen that often, and it would not happen to me. And my response to that would be, just wait until you get older. Things change a lot when
people get to the stereotypical marriage age, which would be
around 28 to 30 years old. And these types of things
are much more common later on in life. Let’s look at the second story. The second story is the
same as the first story, up until the point where Ben saw that she was cheating on him. And the character of
this story is named Jeff. So when Jeff saw this,
he told her to leave. And she left the next day. And of course, Jeff was heartbroken. He cried, and didn’t understand how she could do this to him. He spent the next few months
in pain, crying his life away. And cursing his girlfriend. He would ask himself similar questions. “How could she do this to me? “I wanted to give her everything.” But, it’s at this point when
Jeff does something different. Instead of cursing her name,
and thinking to himself how awful of a person she was,
Jeff asked himself a question that 90% of people will never ask. And he asked himself, “Did I do anything “that caused her to cheat on me?” So Jeff actually got his phone, and he called his ex-girlfriend. She was a little stunned
to hear his voice. And when Jeff asked her the question, she responded with, “Um, I don’t know. “I guess I just lost attraction to you. “I’m sorry.” So, instead of continuing to be depressed, Jeff made a commitment to
start working on himself. He started to try and make himself a more attractive man. A better man. Jeff started off very small. He simply started going to the
gym again on a regular basis. And he did that for a few months. Then, he started to
clean up his diet a bit. And he did that for a few months. Jeff also started to
regain focus on his job. And he started to perform better. When he felt okay about his
job, and his physical health, he even started to look up
ways to start making more money on the side. Because Jeff had always dreamed about starting his own business. When Jeff was with his girlfriend, they would cuddle up with each other, and watch Netflix in the evenings. And that’s just what they
did, every single night. But now that she was gone,
Jeff had way more time to work on himself and his own business. As a result of this extra work though, he started to have some sleeping issues. So he started to look
up ways to sleep better. He started to meditate
before bed to calm his mind. He like the way meditating made him feel, so he started to meditate in the mornings. And because of this, he
became a less-stressed person. Months went by of Jeff putting
in a little bit of work every single day. And eventually he saw some results. But he still wasn’t happy
with how fast it was growing, and he wanted to find
ways to grow even faster. On the weekends, he started to network, and meet other successful people. He started to pick up new
hobbies, like golfing and boxing. Jeff even met an older man
that he shared his story with. And this man could really
relate to his story. So much so, that this
man became Jeff’s mentor. And he helped him grow his small business to the point where he started
to make more money from that than from his normal job. So as a result of this, Jeff actually quit his nine to five job. And, with his newfound
freedom, Jeff did something that he had always dreamed of doing, since he was a kid. Which was, moving to
Italy to study Italian. Jeff had originally given up
on his dream of doing this. Because he was in a
committed relationship, and he had a nine to five
job, he was very comfortable, and it just didn’t make sense. But because his girlfriend was gone, because of his new online business, he decided to pack his bags and move to Italy for six months. So as Jeff was sipping
a beer on the beach, with his laptop in his hand, looking into the deep
ocean with the sun out, he had felt something that he had not felt in a long time. Which was happiness and gratitude. He thought back to the last
time he had felt like this. And it was when he was
with his girlfriend. And then suddenly, he had a flashback to her cheating on him. He thought to himself,
although seeing my girlfriend cheat on me like that, cut me very deep, and in a lot of ways, it broke my heart. And, in some ways, I am still not over it. But, in a way, it may
have been the best thing that could have ever happened to me. If that didn’t happen to me,
I would have never started working out on a regular basis. I would have never improved my diet. I would have never had time to
start my own online business. I would have never had the
ability to come to Italy and fulfill my dream. I would have continued to work at my job, and spend my evenings watching
Netflix with my girlfriend, in my comfortable state. From that point on, Jeff
continued to live his life of trying to be better, every single day, and he never stopped working on himself. The lesson of these
two stories are simple, but it’s crucial to understand. Not only will this
concept change your life, but if you don’t understand it, it has the potential to ruin your life. And the concept is actually very simple. When tragedy happens in your
life, from relationships, loved ones passing, to
getting fired, it’s up to you how you want to respond. If you respond like Ben, it
can be one of the worst things that could have ever happened to you. But, if you respond like Jeff, it could be one of the best things that could ever happen to you. I’m not saying you shouldn’t cry, I’m not saying it’s bad to let yourself experience the emotions, and to take time off, but it’s important to understand that you can’t spend the rest
of your life in that state. You will eventually have
to accept your reality and move on with your life. If you enjoyed this video, please be sure to leave the video a like, and of course, subscribe to the channel. Thanks for watching, and,
I’ll see you in the next one. (calm piano music)

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  1. My goal with this channel is to serve you guys, and create videos that add value to your lives. So if you enjoyed this video, subscribe and hit the bell icon 🙂

    Many more stories to come in the future!

  2. I became Jeff 5 years back, since then I had a few relationships. Although these relationships didn't last, my life didn't sink into endless regret and sorrow. Cause no matter what happened, there is always a constant positive drift, which is to follow my passion and do what I do best. Love yourself first before you love others, this will bring in self conviction and self confidence.

  3. Good advice. I let it ruin mine for 7 years, I turned myself around and met someone again, got married.

    I wish I could say life set, happily ever after but this is not the case. I deal with a new kind of depression and it’s harder to deal with.

    I lost my child 3 weeks before due date. This happened 3 years ago and once again downward spiral. I don’t blame Kiera (we named her this). Instead it’s the not knowing why that haunts me. I’ve lost 2 jobs because I cannot pull it together.

    I will say that I’m working very hard everyday to get through it and hopefully time heals all.

  4. Cheating sucks. My ex cheated on me and got pregnant by a guy who was married, she knew him before she met me. I was going to propose to her soon, I loved her so much, we had the best time ever. Then this bombshell shredded my heart and I've never recovered since, 4 years later. The worst part is when you still love someone despite their actions.

  5. Wow that's hurt a d terrible, all he can do now is to move on and keep life keep going. Right guy's !

  6. you are who you are. no competition nessesary, no 'getting a better man'. just find a girl who adores you for the person you are and you will be fine.

  7. My girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago and it's normal to be sad but not caring about it for too long is better. There are always a lot of girls. I achieved a lot of things in just 3 weeks without a girlfriend

  8. my gf cheated on me yet i decided to forgive her just bcs how i love her. we tried everything all over again but things are just different from what it was before. she couldnt accept the fact that i dont 100% trust her anymore. that causes a lot of fight then she made me the bad guy bcs of not trusting her. guilt tripping me, like im the reason this relationship wont work. i almost fall for her trick then i decided cut it off.

    now, i feel miserable. fucking cheater bitch. im literally ben right now lmao

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  10. 10 years dating, living togeather…no ring? Doesnt like he took her seriously. Not suprised she cheated. If you want loyalty and exclusivity put a ring on it

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  12. Virgin Ben – crying in front of tv, jerking off to the girl who cucked him, using his own snot and tears as lube, listening to juice wrld.

    Chad Jeff – moved on, started a business, ate healthy, got shredded,drowning in guac, moved to Italy, fucking Gucci hos.

  13. If the first case happen to you, would you punch to that lover man? Or not? I think, WE gotta be thorough and have self-control. Because if we decide to punch him, we could be defendant by that piece of shit and then, it would be more painful to know they are happy and enjoying our money. Practically, we would be supporting them… Don't forget, the life is not so fair.

  14. Wow i cried… im in a same situation like this… and didnt know how to go further with my life or how to decide anything… this video came like automatically on my screen like an answer.. thank you

  15. This is what exactly happened to me. My ex destroyed me and went to a very dark path but managed to do some good. My part-time job where I work 3-4 days a week now pays literally (not exaggerating) 5 times more than my full-time stress. I quit corporate America and just got better. I started becoming the bachelorette in my area driving my dream car and everything is peachy on the outside.BUT to be honest, I am STILL very bitter, scorn, ruined, and suffering on the inside. I guess I'm living my dream life but I CANT enjoy it even though that was the best thing that could happened.

  16. Mitch thank you! You’re adding value to my life with your awesome videos…You’re changing life with these messages…I appreciate your videos!

  17. I’m 18 and it happened to me too, I’m still trying to gain my footing, I’m on that line between being Ben and Jeff

  18. Can you make a video telling people to stay in the world because they matter? It'll get better sort of thing I really need one right now…

  19. Im more happier with my life yes its been hard on me and yes we were together forn10 years and. Ita aweome nkw i can do what i want mobody telling me noghing she was bosay little bitch but i can say its been great i got. Plans. To have my. Buisnees. Too

  20. Half a year ago my ex cheated on me even though i went through heartbreak and depression i am growing out of it and i know it wasnt my fault she lost her love in me, it was her own choice to move across the country and she knew the consequences of it. Shes probably still dating the guy she cheated on me with but i got a lot more strength in my heart and i have figured out who i am as a person because she left me.

    When something like this happens its how you react to it than can change the course of your life and i know that whoever my future wife may be, i will love her and take care of her with all of my heart and thats a promise from the heart ??❤️

  21. my girlfriend cheated on me rn she had sex with another guy rn i am so down rn if somebody read this i need comfort 08/13/2019 21:54 at night here rn

  22. Fucking bitch, this is why I'm going mgtow and only date men, because a guy would never do something like this, it's only women.

  23. If you move on after you break up it means you dont really love them. Healing has its process especially you caught them doing things infront of you. Separation likes this cause trauma, depression and anxiety. Trust i know how it feels to be cheated up front. In my part my ex wants me to accept it that it happened well its easy for you say you are the one who is hurt and betrayed. I started to moved on a little bit when i realize in the end he doesnt deserve every single tear. Im almost there the healing is not that easy but once you get out from a dishonesty shitty marriage you will gonna fuck yeah im happy were over.

  24. Wait that girl must be really stupid because who the fuck right cheats on a person but then days they must take their shows off like jesus christ dumb also the dude a dipshit as well who sees four shoes still carry on happy like nigga she ain't got four legs and its clearly fucking a male shoes dont u think that you like should be atleast a little suspicious

  25. The thing is, break ups are harder on men than a women in most cases. The man is required to be the provider, the protector and generally responsible for making the woman happy and financially secure and be the bread winner. He's supposed to ask her out, ask her to marry, he's supposed to be the one to care for the woman's needs and when a woman cheats on a man and breaks his heart it hurts to the very core because it makes us question everything we ever did and feel as if we were inferior and utterly worthless because the man tried his absolute HARDEST but it's not enough…that will destroy a person man or woman. You give your ALL and STILL get cheated on really wrecks you…. Trust me I know. Women have it made, they don't have to do shit with relationships and get catered to and treated like a princess and is spoiled as fuck a turns them into entitled and selfish women and expect the man to put up with any of her Bullshit
    …'s fuckin sad and men are supposed to keep their emotions in check and never cry around a girl because they will always think of you as weak and lose all respect for you

  26. My first boyfriend just broke up with me just because we don’t have the same lunch and he thinks that he will never see me again. His parents are probably really strict.

  27. Not every girls are like this. Just keep finding your own happiness it could be something else or another one that might be the one❤️

  28. I suffer since 2012…. I loose my job…. I started have sleep issues smoke and drink more and then panick atacks anxiety disorder after i have opiods history to my anxiety and panick atacks than i quick this kind of medications but now 4 years than the anxiety and panick atacks start i still dont figure it out my problems… I feel lost im 30 years old in 4 years i work 1 year and half i start to loose my mind fellas… I cant do anithyng without company i feel scary to death… Im very sad becaude at this time i would lile to have a life independent you know? But im more lost than ever

  29. She told me she broke up with a guy…and after few months she told me she loved me…we were happy…and she broke up with me and she's back with her ex…? Guess What mistake I just did? Ive TRUSTED her

  30. I broke up 3 months ago, after 6 weeks, she is with my best friend. I guess that's the reason she asked to break up. But anyhow, i hit the gym everyday, read bible everyday. I was 106kg before breaking up, and now I'm 92 and continue to drop. I have to say, I found myself back after breaking up, 2.5 years with her didn't improve me in anything. I am glad I broke up with her, and everything is great now.
    Thanks for the video btw, i watched it right after i broke up. Thank you.

  31. Everything is temporary man no one cares for your love…its your mom and dad only whom we should spend more time with atleast they will value it not these girls who just plays around with our feeling …#broken

  32. Thks! I actually gotta face to my personal tragedy about cheating… After watching this made me realize that I have to move on and let that person out of our life, doing something better for myself.

  33. Younger couples cheat all the time. I think they're just better at hiding it. Older couples cheat a lot of the time to get caught & end the relationship

  34. You seriously just blew the clouds out of my head and made me see so much clearer than I have in forever. Even after the passing of a loved one in recent months, this really helped me. Not only to see things as so bad, but also to help me through other personal and emotional issues I've currently had. Thank you

  35. Kids, this is BS. If someone breaks up with you, you can ask "Is it bc of st I did?"
    If someone cheats on you, it's always bc they're an a-hole.
    & it's great to improve yourself, but you don't need to improve yourself to be loved. All you gotta do is keep an open mind & heart & wait. No matter how big a loser you are, there are plenty of people out there who will adore you just as you are.
    & all you people out there talkin about "Imma stay single forever", you're acting like a child who fell down, got a boo boo & decided to never get up again. You're missing out on life.

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